Carole King – So Far Away (BBC In Concert, February 10, 1971)

The Song That Closed Amy Winehouse’s Funeral

Released as a single in August 1971, “So Far Away” was the fourth track from Carole King’s landmark Tapestry album. The ballad peaked at number 14 on the Billboard Hot 100 and number three on the Adult Contemporary chart, spending 10 weeks in the top 100. What makes this song remarkable is how King, who built her career writing lyrics with partners like ex-husband Gerry Goffin, penned both words and music herself. The result was something deeply personal that would resonate across generations.

The song hit number 14 for two weeks in October 1971, also climbing to number 17 in Canada and number 12 on the Canadian Adult Contemporary chart. It was released as a double A-side with Smackwater Jack, both getting substantial airplay. While Tapestry was dominating the album charts and King’s It’s Too Late sat at number one, So Far Away carved out its own space as the album’s emotional heart. At a time when America was grappling with the Vietnam War and a generation scattered across the country chasing dreams, the line “doesn’t anybody stay in one place anymore” captured something universal.

King wrote the song during a period of constant touring and travel, feeling the weight of physical and emotional distance. Producer Lou Adler later called it his favorite track on Tapestry, noting how that signature line felt like a statement about an entire era. The lyrics start with longing for a distant lover but expand into something bigger, exploring how people were becoming disconnected in a rapidly changing world. King wrote it alone, which was unusual for her, and the vulnerability shows.

Recording took place at A&M Studios in Hollywood during January 1971, with the band working in Studio B and C. Lou Adler produced, creating a deliberately intimate sound by positioning the musicians close together in a dimly lit room. James Taylor played acoustic guitar, bringing his signature gentle touch. King’s then-husband Charles Larkey handled bass, Russ Kunkel laid down the drums, and jazz saxophonist Curtis Amy added ethereal flute during the instrumental break. They used 16-track analog tape and worked quickly, often completing two or three songs per three-hour session. King’s piano served as the foundation, with minimal overdubs to preserve that raw, live feel she captured in her home demos.

Tapestry arrived on February 10, 1971, and became a cultural phenomenon, spending 313 weeks on the Billboard album chart and winning four Grammys including Album of the Year. King had spent a decade writing hits for others, but this was her breakthrough as a performer. The album featured backing vocals from both James Taylor and Joni Mitchell, and sold over 25 million copies worldwide. So Far Away sat as track two, right after I Feel the Earth Move, strategically placed to showcase King’s range from fiery to tender.

Rod Stewart covered it for the 1995 tribute album Tapestry Revisited, reaching number two on the Adult Contemporary chart. The Crusaders recorded a nearly 12-minute instrumental version in 1974. Artists from Reba McEntire to Tina Arena have tackled it. But perhaps its most poignant moment came on July 26, 2011, when mourners at Amy Winehouse’s funeral sang it together, led by her father Mitch. The 27-year-old singer had often performed it with her dad, and it was one of her favorites. The song’s themes of longing and separation took on heartbreaking new meaning that day.

Producer Lou Adler once compared the album’s emotional power to the film Love Story, meaning it would touch people in ways no other record had. He was right. King captured something timeless on So Far Away, a song that speaks to anyone who’s ever felt the ache of distance. Ranked number two on American Songwriter’s list of King’s greatest songs and number four by Paste, it remains a masterclass in vulnerability. King proved that sometimes the most powerful songs come when you write both the words and the music yourself, pouring everything into three minutes and 55 seconds of honest longing.

“So Far Away” Single by Carole King from the album Tapestry
A-side “Smackwater Jack”
Released March 1971
Recorded January 1971
Label Ode/A&M Records, Epic/SME Records
Songwriter Carole King
Producer Lou Adler
Charted No.14 in US, No.12 in Canada]

The recording features James Taylor on acoustic guitar. In addition to Taylor, and King on piano, instruments include Russ Kunkel on drums, Charles Larkey on bass guitar and Curtis Amy on flute.